Sunday, April 5, 2009


I don't mean to say that those who are in MOMs are selfish. I am saying that the Church's reasoning behind promoting such marriages is selfish and that I would be marrying a girl selfishly.

Doing what you believe you are supposed to do is not a selfish thing in the least bit.


  1. No offense taken by me <--30 year MOM husband and father. But thanks for thinking that through. Evidence, I'd say, of a good mind and heart. :)

  2. I didn't take it wrong either. I really enjoyed your insight. You gained something from it while I just started fuming and then took a nap during the rest of the session.

  3. I appreciate that you can see the difference. For some of us MOMs the distinction was never drawn. We just married because that is what we were supposed to do, and at that time the concept of even admitting you were "gay" was unthinkable. Fast forward 30 years and you've got a whole different dynamic.